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Your friendly neighbourhood people pleasing optimist trying to improve my life and yours, 1% at a time.

The real reasons why being a “nice” person is destroying the real you
This week I'm trying to answer the burning question: "If I'm no longer a people pleaser, does that mean I’m no longer a “nice” person?"
Aug 3, 20234 min read

From Chaos to Clarity: How Overthinking plagues your mind and 5 positive techniques to stop it
Are you constantly overthinking? Have you ever won an argument in your head while in the shower? Find out how to stop overthinking now!
Jul 27, 20237 min read

Is this the secret to overcoming people pleasing? Rebuilding my journaling habit in 7 days
A 7 day beginners guide to journaling. I try to overcome my people pleasing habits through the practice of daily journaling.
Jul 13, 20235 min read

How my people pleasing tendencies are showing up during the grieving process...
An emotional Thoughts for Thursday post where I open up about how my people pleasing is impacting me while grieving the loss of my Poppa Tom
Jun 29, 20235 min read


How To Break the "Sorry" Habit and Stop Over-Apologising For Everything
Do you find yourself apologising for everything? Saying "sorry" when someone bumps into you or whenever you ask a question? Do you feel...
May 25, 20236 min read


Have you ever been a victim of the People Pleasing Paradox? Because I have...
You know the feeling you get when you have to choose between saying what you actually think, and what you believe others want you to think?
Apr 20, 20234 min read


My life as a recovering people pleaser… and 5 things I’m doing to make it better
And there I was. Alone in my apartment, a lukewarm Coors Light in my hand, sitting in people pleasing limbo.
Welcome to my personal blog...
Apr 12, 20238 min read
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